tools/ctdb: "ctdb runstate" now accepts optional expected run state arguments

tools/ctdb: "ctdb runstate" now accepts optional expected run state arguments

If one or more run states are specified then "ctdb runstate" succeeds
only if ctdbd is in one of those run states.

At the moment, if the "setup" event fails then the initscript succeeds
but ctdbd exits almost immediately.  This behaviour isn't very
friendly.

The initscript now waits until ctdbd is in "startup" or "running" run
state via the use of "ctdb runstate startup running", meaning that ctdbd
has successfully passed the "setup" event.

The "setup" event code in 00.ctdb now waits until ctdbd is in the
"setup" run state before proceeding via the use of "ctdb runstate setup".

Signed-off-by: Martin Schwenke <martin@meltin.net>
Pair-programmed-with: Amitay Isaacs <amitay@gmail.com>