speed startup: add --sloppy-start.

speed startup: add --sloppy-start.

The extra recovery interval wait was introduced in 821333afb458 but no
explanation was provided in that message.  Nonetheless, if starting
the entire cluster for the first time, it should be safe to skip this.

We use the commandline arg --sloppy-start which should discourage
people from using it outside testing.

Seconds between ctdbd first log message and node healthy:
BEFORE:	16.10
AFTER: 4.03

Signed-off-by: Rusty Russell <rusty@rustcorp.com.au>