pthreadpool: Fix fork behaviour

pthreadpool: Fix fork behaviour

glibc's pthread_cond_wait(&c, &m) increments m.__data.__nusers, making
pthread_mutex_destroy return EBUSY. Thus we can't allow any thread waiting for
a job across a fork. Also, the state of the condvar itself is unclear across a
fork. Right now to me it looks like an initialized but unused condvar can be
used in the child. Busy worker threads don't cause any trouble here, they don't
hold mutexes or condvars. Also, they can't reach the condvar because _prepare
holds all mutexes.

Bug: https://bugzilla.samba.org/show_bug.cgi?id=13006
Signed-off-by: Volker Lendecke <vl@samba.org>
Reviewed-by: Jeremy Allison <jra@samba.org>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Metzmacher <metze@samba.org>