onnode: update algorithm for finding nodes file.
2 changes:
* If a relative nodes file is specified via -f or $CTDB_NODES_FILE but
this file does not exist then try looking for the file in /etc/ctdb
(or $CTDB_BASE if set).
* If a nodes file is specified via -f or $CTDB_NODES_FILE but this
file does not exist (even when checked as per above) then do not
fall back to /etc/ctdb/nodes ((or $CTDB_BASE if set). The old
behaviour was surprising and hid errors.
Signed-off-by: Martin Schwenke <martin@meltin.net>